Table florals that let guests
actually see each other
The 25cm rule, edible accents that are not a gimmick, and how to style a long dinner table without it looking like a wedding expo.
A forty-cover dinner at a Grenfell Street venue. Everything below sightline.
The 25cm rule
Guests sit across from each other. Anything taller than about 25 centimetres puts a wall of foliage between two people trying to talk. Keep compositions low and wide, or go genuinely tall and thin above sightline. The middle zone is where bad weddings live.
The vocabulary, in case you need it
- Kenzanpin holder for low bowls
- Runnerrepeated low pieces along the table
- Bud vase clustersingle stems, varied height, cheap look-big
- Posysmall hand-tied at each place setting
Edible accents that are not a gimmick
Figs, pomegranates, artichokes and olive branches work because they belong at a table. The trick is restraint: one food element per table, treated like a flower, not a fruit basket. A halved fig next to a garden rose reads intentional. Twelve citrus per setting reads desperate.
Candles and the smell problem
No scented candles near food, ever, and no heavily perfumed flowers at nose height. Stargazer lilies are banned from our dinner work for this reason. Eucalyptus at low level is fine; guests smell it only when they lean in to ask who did the flowers, which is the correct moment.
Table work is part of the event workshop and comes up again in the bootcamp when we quote restaurant subscriptions. For palette thinking, read the colour theory piece.
Mara Okafor
Founder, head floristMara styles the studio's event dinners and has strong opinions about tall centrepieces (against).
Learn table work hands-on
The event workshop ends with a real dinner-table build.